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Do About versus Do With

By M-Power
Positivity is a practical approach to solve every problem. Pathological Positivity is not ignoring or avoiding reality, but intentionally and doggedly insisting on seeing possibilities in problems and finding or creating constructive tools to handle inevitable challenges.
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That’s Good!

By M-Power
The motivational master, Earl Nightingale promoted Pathological Positivity when he suggested that we learn to habitually respond to even devastating circumstances by saying “that’s good” – then engage our marvelous minds to discover or create what’s good about it.  As a psychologist, I see the power in this strategy.  Our mind will dutifully fulfill our commands and requests.  If we ask our mind to find out what is bad about something we can certainly find supportive evidence.  If, on the other hand, we ask our minds to find out what is good about something, our minds will get to work on that.  "What could possibly be good about this!?"  Well, that's not a bad question - get busy finding a legitimate answer instead of assuming that there couldn't be one. life loans It's our attitude in life that determines life's attitude toward us. ~ Earl Nightingale
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Positive On Purpose

By M-Power
Sometimes I am accused of being pathologically positive, like Pollyanna from the 1960 Disney movie. Is this a compliment or a criticism? I wasn't sure so I rented the movie. I remember as a child liking the movie. It seems that when I got older, I joined in with the other popular opinions that it was just corny and, well, pollyannaish. Watching it this time, I really paid attention to what Pollyanna was doing in light of my positive psychology practice. Here is a kid who was orphaned at an age when she could understand what was going on. Unquestionably a huge and painful adversity. Her father had been a minister, and taught her a game that she liked to play whenever something difficult or unpleasant was happening - the glad game. The game is that you intentionally look for something to be glad about related to your situation. It is…
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Head For Higher Ground

By M-Power
December 26, 2006 was the date.  An earthquake beneath the Indian Ocean caused a shift in the earth's plates that led to a displacement of the sea itself.  The waters withdrew from the shore in preparation for an enormous tsunami to follow.  Those who saw and recognized the signs immediately began to retreat for higher ground - they knew what was coming.  There are plenty of signs around indicating that our world is in danger - everything from economic indicators to crime rates.  There is ample reason to believe that we need to head for higher ground.  Identify the higher ground in your life and invite others along. Those who say it can’t be done are usually interrupted by others doing it.  ~ James Arthur Baldwin    
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Sharing or Despairing

By M-Power
I've made a hobby of collecting inspiring stories.  When I interview amazing people on my show, I've noticed that every single story without exception has a hard part in the middle.  These hard parts of life create a choice.  The choice is between sharing and despairing.  When you focus on your problem as if it is all about you, get ready for some serious despair.  When you realize that your problem has something to do with assisting others who have similar problems, and you get busy sharing what you've learned and how you've grown, life takes on new meaning and purpose.  I am so grateful for good people who are willing to share - it helps me feel less crazy and more hopeful in my own challenges.  Sharing or despairing - it's your choice!   (Click here to comment on this message)   Recognize that each of us has the…
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The Eclipse

By M-Power
BIOKO.ORG/DATA/http://crevhsl.org/discount-payday-loans The sun is much larger than the moon, yet during an eclipse the moon blocks our view of the much larger and much more powerful sun (isn't that a fantastic picture).  On the road to your dream, obstacles will arise.  Remember that these things are not as big and as powerful as your dream – keep the perspective and keep moving forward.  Just imagine where you will be once you get past your giant!    Join me Tuesday evening for a free teleseminar about facing your giants.  http://summergiantsteleseminar.eventbrite.com.  The difference in winning and losing is most often… not quitting. - Walt Disney
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Playing The Game

By M-Power
As I was enjoying game four of the Eastern Conference NBA Finals last night with my sons, I realized that a game without real challenges is not very interesting.  Life is a game.  The object of this game is to learn things, gain experience, and have joy.  As you are playing this game, there will be turns when you draw a card that reads “Bankrupt,” or “Go Back Three Steps,” or “You Lose a Loved One.”  Other cards will say “Payday,” or “Fall in Love,” or “Advance Token to Disneyland.”  Whatever card you have drawn this turn, the objective remains the same – learn something, gain experience, and have joy.  Win this turn, regardless of the card that is drawn! It is in this whole process of meeting and solving problems that life has its meaning.  Problems are the cutting edge that distinguishes between success and failure.  Problems call forth…
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Impossible Just Takes Longer

By M-Power
Art Berg inspired millions by refusing to place limits on his potential.  After a car crash severed his spinal cord leaving him quadriplegic, doctors told Art that he would never marry, participate in sports, or do some of the other things he loved.  Arts mother told him at his hospital bed, “Art, while the difficult takes time, the impossible just takes a little longer.”  Art went on to become an elite wheelchair athlete, and a powerful speaker and author who inspired millions before his death in 2002.  Those who think that something is impossible should get out of the way of those of us who are doing it!bad credit no    
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