Conflict resolution

How to Agree on Effective Rules When You Have Different Values

Is it possible for couples with different values to agree on effective rules for their children? Yes! When couples simplify and seek to understand each other. Let’s start with the good news: Differences make us relevant and interesting to each other. Think about it, if you and your partner were exactly the same, one of […]

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How To Raise Your Emotional Quotient

No matter the reason someone comes into my office, what issue they are getting stuck with, we almost always have to do some work with what we control and what we don’t.  It can be difficult or freeing when someone realizes that they don’t have control over something they have been trying to control. It

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Five Factors That Determine The Outcome Of Divorce For Children

The 5 factors that determine the outcome of divorce for children come from working as a child custody evaluator for the courts for almost 13 years. Honestly, it’s yuck work, not fun. When bitter, angry, divorcing people can’t figure out how to share their kids, it gets messy but I learned a lot of things

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